Your Suffering is Never Caused by the Person You are Blaming

The End of Blame: Awaken To Your Inner Freedom

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The Illusion of Blame

"Your suffering is never caused by the person you are blaming."

The mind resists this truth. It wants to point outward, find fault, and blame others for pain. Yet suffering is never the result of another’s actions but of how the mind holds onto them—clinging to a story, reinforcing an identity rooted in past wounds.

Blame is seductive. It offers a false sense of clarity, a neat division between victim and offender. Blame provides a false sense of fulfillment that the problem is “outside of you”. But in reality, it keeps you trapped, bound to the very pain you wish to escape. The moment you blame, you unknowingly hand over your inner power, waiting for the other person to change, to apologize, to make things right. And so, suffering continues. But how do you awaken to your inner freedom and end the blame game?…